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Preparation Guide

Getting ready for your EMDR Intensive is an important step in ensuring a smooth and effective experience. Below are some key preparation steps to help you feel physically, mentally, and emotionally ready for your session.

Reflect on Your Goals

Before your intensive, take some time to think about:

  • What challenges or patterns are bringing you to EMDR?

  • Specific memories, triggers, or negative beliefs you’d like to work on

  • What you hope to gain from this experience

Tip: If you journal, consider writing down thoughts, memories, or emotions that feel important. This will help bring clarity and focus to your session.

Prioritize Rest & Self-Care

Your brain will be doing deep healing work during the intensive, so it’s important to arrive feeling well-rested and nourished.

  • Before Your Session:

  • Get a full night’s sleep

  • Avoid excessive caffeine or alcohol

  • Stay hydrated and eat a balanced meal

Practice Grounding Techniques

EMDR involves processing emotions and memories, so it’s helpful to have self-soothing techniques in place beforehand.

Some simple techniques to try:

  • Deep breathing (Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 6)

  • Mindfulness or meditation

  • The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise (naming things you see, hear, feel, smell, taste)

Tip: If you already have calming practices you enjoy (like yoga, music, or gentle movement), continue them leading up to your session.

Dress Comfortably

Wear loose, comfortable clothing that allows you to feel at ease. You might experience body sensations during EMDR, so it’s best to dress in a way that supports relaxation.

Tip: Bring layers, like a cozy sweater or scarf, in case the temperature fluctuates.

Plan for a Low-Stress Day

Since EMDR Intensives are emotionally and mentally engaging, you’ll want to minimize outside stressors as much as possible.

  • Try not to schedule important meetings or big commitments right before or after

  • Give yourself buffer time before your session to relax and center yourself

  • If possible, arrange for a light, calming day afterward for reflection and integration

Bring Essentials for Comfort

Consider bringing:

  • Water bottle (hydration helps with emotional processing)

  • Light snacks (like a granola bar or fruit, if needed)

  • A journal (to write down any reflections before or after)

  • Anything comforting (a small object, essential oil, or grounding item)

Trust the Process & Be Open to Change

 

EMDR works in unexpected and organic ways—your brain will process what it’s ready to, sometimes in ways you don’t anticipate.

  • You don’t have to “force” yourself to remember things—your mind will guide the process

  • Allow whatever thoughts, emotions, or sensations arise—there’s no right or wrong way to experience EMDR

  • Know that this is a safe space, and you will always be in control

 

Reach Out if You Have Questions

If you have any concerns before your intensive, don’t hesitate to ask! I’m here to support you and ensure you feel prepared, informed, and comfortable before your session.

By taking these steps, you’re setting yourself up for a transformative and healing experience. Looking forward to working with you soon!

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